We can get to the screen where you select the server then after that it just sits at connecting? my server.cfg is the same as what i try and connect too, and i am using the new prof file. Any suggestions?

Does it sit at the first connecting screen or the second? If its the first, verify that you also dont have anything blocking your server. Make sure the port you use is open on your firewall and forwarded by your router if you have them.

If its the second connecting screen, are you using a client newer than 4.0.4? If so and you're using POL095 theres your problem. Using Razor will allow you to log into POL095 with higher clients (I tested this with 5.x clients) but if you dont want to enforce every person connecting to your server to use Razor, you'll have to make them download and use a client older than 4.0.4.

I think hes on a router and hes using his inside ip... i had the same problem, ezcept it was not with myself.